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scarlets79
It's nice to hear the tories talk of the family, but what do they mean?

Notice how they don't talk about marriage anymore, but "family". And "family" is fastly becoming whatever people want to define it as, no more do we have the gold standard of marriage being encouraged. Standards are slipping. NuLabour and their secular friends want us all to say that a gay couple adopting children is just a valid a family as a married couple with kids. Indeed, why stop there- why would polygamy or forced marriage be wrong? Why not incestuous marriages/families?

The tory talk of family is meaningless unless they define it and make it clear they mean marriage between man and woman as the cornerstone of family.
laurejon
New Labour have clearly defined it, Gordon Brown as part of his Britishness promotion has stated "Its not Gay if you are pushing and every hole is a goal"
Skint Academic
Scarlets, maybe you should try gay sex. It's really good because your partner knows how to get the most pleasure from your genitalia. You may find that a lot of hate and repression leaves you as a result. You also have a partner that really understands how you think and who is more likely to have the same interests as you ...

Aha! that's it isn't it. You're jealous.
Bart of Darkness
QUOTE (Skint Academic @ Mar 18 2008, 03:34 PM) *
Scarlets, maybe you should try gay sex.

Or indeed.... sex.
scarlets79
I remember Cameron trying to be trendy mentioning civil partnership in a tory conference once, it didn't go down well at all.
Minos
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 18 2008, 04:42 PM) *
I remember Cameron trying to be trendy mentioning civil partnership in a tory conference once, it didn't go down well at all.

I bet there are a lot of tories who secretly go down real good.
laurejon
QUOTE (Minos @ Mar 18 2008, 07:06 PM) *
I bet there are a lot of tories who secretly go down real good.



I think the Labour Parties Ratings seem to be "Going Down Real Good"
wheresmyfoxhole
L J why haven't you mentioned that Tory who has just got done for fiddling postal votes?
And Scarlet where was Jesus's own family and I don't mean Mary Joseph or James?
Wario
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 18 2008, 02:24 PM) *
It's nice to hear the tories talk of the family, but what do they mean?

If ya godda ask, it don't exist. Gottit?
Doom Lord
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 18 2008, 02:24 PM) *
It's nice to hear the tories talk of the family, but what do they mean?

Notice how they don't talk about marriage anymore, but "family". And "family" is fastly becoming whatever people want to define it as, no more do we have the gold standard of marriage being encouraged. Standards are slipping. NuLabour and their secular friends want us all to say that a gay couple adopting children is just a valid a family as a married couple with kids. Indeed, why stop there- why would polygamy or forced marriage be wrong? Why not incestuous marriages/families?

The tory talk of family is meaningless unless they define it and make it clear they mean marriage between man and woman as the cornerstone of family.


Just for the record:

Nothing wrong with Gay people adopting children, why shouldn'y gay people have a normal family life? Also nothing wrong with polgamy as long as all the adults are consenting.

However forced marrigiages as wrong because at least one person has not given their consent.

Incest is wrong because of medical problems associated with it, wheter it's morally wrong is also up for debate. I mean if there was not a medical issue and both adults are consenting and happy is it wrong?
scarlets79
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 12:58 PM) *
Just for the record:

Nothing wrong with Gay people adopting children, why shouldn'y gay people have a normal family life?


but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:01 PM) *
but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey


Indeed, the Bible is full of incest so well done for sticking up for your God-fearing brothers and sisters.
scarlets79
explain to us why it's wrong for a man to have sex with his ape "cousin", and get married, pacific?
barry
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 02:22 PM) *
explain to us why it's wrong for a man to have sex with his ape "cousin", and get married, pacific?


Didn't Adam's son slip his sister one?
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:22 PM) *
explain to us why it's wrong for a man to have sex with his ape "cousin", and get married, pacific?


You don't believe that man is descended from apes, so they can not be cousins accoriding to you.

Sounds like a little God-bot is starting to believe in evolution. wink.gif
Doom Lord
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:01 PM) *
but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey


With regards to Brother and Sisters, Genetically speaking its a no go, Although this could change as we make advances with genetic manipulation so I am open to debate on this one, but it would be pushing the boundry for me.

As to beastiality, well animalscan't speak so they can't give consent so yes I am against it.

However your initial question is good one: "What is Family?". I often find myself thinking about this. For me "Familiy" is a unit of measure that refers to the "Main Carers" of a child.

I don't think you could actually pin down on "Family Values" because these are different for every family and always have been, thats what makes people individual. Obviously Religion sets a number of "Family Values" that are constant and can be used a measure of how conformist each family is to these values.

Please note that I am not saying that these values are bad. In fact I feel that with the decline of religion in the UK that a lot of decent values\rules are lost and there is not a mechanism to replace them. We certainly cannot look to our leaders for moral guidence

Personally I think Atheism should become a proper form of religion i.e it should be organised. It should have a set of rules about how to live a good, honest life. Also because it wasn't the word of God then it would be OK to discuss things and change the world around us changed.
laurejon
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 01:58 PM) *
Just for the record:

Nothing wrong with Gay people adopting children, why shouldn'y gay people have a normal family life? Also nothing wrong with polgamy as long as all the adults are consenting.

However forced marrigiages as wrong because at least one person has not given their consent.

Incest is wrong because of medical problems associated with it, wheter it's morally wrong is also up for debate. I mean if there was not a medical issue and both adults are consenting and happy is it wrong?


Thats an Oxymoron

Nothing wrong with Gay people adopting children, why shouldn'y gay people have a normal family life?

Gay people cannot have a normal family life as they are both of the same sex!!!.

Doom Lord
QUOTE (laurejon @ Mar 20 2008, 02:46 PM) *
Thats an Oxymoron

Nothing wrong with Gay people adopting children, why shouldn'y gay people have a normal family life?

Gay people cannot have a normal family life as they are both of the same sex!!!.



So if a man and a woman cannot have a child and they adopt one, can they have a normal family life?

My friend is a lesbian, she has a son from a previous relationship but now lives with her female partner. I can assure you that thier family life is no different to the one I have with my wife and son.
scarlets79
exactly, I don't understand why sex with a nice woman is that repulsive to these gays that they refuse to do it yet still want to pretend they have a normal family?!? only NuLabour could have granted such a privelidge to such absurdity, and they stubbornly enforced it even though this meant Catholic adoption agencies may shut down, depriving orphans of good normal families to adopt them

if gays want a normal family they should repent of their sinful homosexual behaviour and find someone of the opposite sex
Vespasian
While part of me is against gay people adopting children, I would think many gay couples could bring up children better than some of those pramfaces out there. Or these two hopeless examples

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/west_yo...ire/7299527.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7297481.stm
scarlets79
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 02:51 PM) *
So if a man and a woman cannot have a child so they adopt one, can they have a normal family life?


yes they can, but possibly not by NuLabour definition
scarlets79
QUOTE (Vespasian @ Mar 20 2008, 02:58 PM) *
While part of me is against gay people adopting children, I would think many gay couples could bring up children better than some of those pramfaces out there. Or these two hopeless examples


so tells us why the alleged evolution processes have not made it possible for one men to impregnate another yet?
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:00 PM) *
so tells us why the alleged evolution processes have not made it possible for one men to impregnate another yet?


Can you tell me why God would make some man or woman sterile or infertile?

Why would God do that?
scarlets79
QUOTE (Pacific State @ Mar 20 2008, 03:01 PM) *
Can you tell me why God would make some man or woman sterile or infertile?

Why would God do that?


he created Adam, and Adam was fine in that respect otherwise you wouldn't be here
then sin came in and creation groans since that awful time in history
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:06 PM) *
he created Adam, and Adam was fine in that respect otherwise you wouldn't be here
then sin came in and creation groans since that awful time in history


That is such a non-answer.

Let's say you are infertile. Why would God make you infertile and not me?
scarlets79
QUOTE (Pacific State @ Mar 20 2008, 03:08 PM) *
That is such a non-answer.

Let's say you are infertile. Why would God make you infertile and not me?


we're in a fallen creation which is no respector of persons & it's not the hand you get it's what you do with it. Liberal-lefties always want to blame everyone else for their misery and failings, pathetic attitude.
barry
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 04:14 PM) *
we're in a fallen creation which is no respector of persons & it's not the hand you get it's what you do with it. Liberal-lefties always want to blame everyone else for their misery and failings, pathetic attitude.


Speak for yourself.
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:14 PM) *
we're in a fallen creation which is no respector of persons & it's not the hand you get it's what you do with it. Liberal-lefties always want to blame everyone else for their misery and failings, pathetic attitude.


Jesus was the biggest leftie of them all.
scarlets79
so why can't a man marry an ape?
Bart of Darkness
QUOTE (Vespasian @ Mar 20 2008, 02:58 PM) *
While part of me is against gay people adopting children, I would think many gay couples could bring up children better than some of those pramfaces out there. Or these two hopeless examples

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/west_yo...ire/7299527.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7297481.stm

A very good point (good examples as well).
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:23 PM) *
so why can't a man marry an ape?


I've answered this before but your program may not yet be capable of processing the response.

An ape does not have the higher brain function to understand marriage and the consequences of entering into it. Therefore, when at the wedding ceremony, it could not repeat the vows or give any consent because it lacks the intelligence to understand the concept, let alone agree to the verbally.

You might as well replace "ape" with "frog" and it will mean the same thing.

Jesus was bisexual.
Doom Lord
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:00 PM) *
so tells us why the alleged evolution processes have not made it possible for one men to impregnate another yet?


I think your asking the wrong question. Where do Hermaphradites fit into your thinking?
scarlets79
giving an orphan to be adopted by a gay couple systematically denies the child of 1. a heterosexual parent 2. either a mum or a dad
you don't need a religious conscience to figure out that's just wrong
Doom Lord
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:23 PM) *
so why can't a man marry an ape?


Because the Ape cannot give it's consent, so it would be a forced marriage which is wrong in my opinion.
scarlets79
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 03:31 PM) *
Because the Ape cannot give it's consent, so it would be a forced marriage which is wrong in my opinion.


how would an ape have to give consent
scarlets79
QUOTE (Pacific State @ Mar 20 2008, 03:27 PM) *
I've answered this before but your program may not yet be capable of processing the response.

An ape does not have the higher brain function to understand marriage and the consequences of entering into it. Therefore, when at the wedding ceremony, it could not repeat the vows or give any consent because it lacks the intelligence to understand the concept, let alone agree to the verbally.

You might as well replace "ape" with "frog" and it will mean the same thing.


what about people with low IQ or poor education, would you ban them from marrying also?
Doom Lord
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:27 PM) *
giving an orphan to be adopted by a gay couple systematically denies the child of 1. a heterosexual parent 2. either a mum or a dad
you don't need a religious conscience to figure out that's just wrong


I think I know what you are trying to say: "Does a child being brought up by a Gay couple stand more chance of being gay and depriveing them of a so called "Normal" Life?"

I think this is a valid point to raise and goes back to why you are asking the wrong questions, the real question is: are Gay people Gay by design or through learnt bahviour? either way I do think there are enough cases of Gay people bringing up childen for us to do some sort of study to try an answer that question. If the answer is that doesn't matter what sexuality your parents are then I would be all for it.
Vespasian
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:06 PM) *
he created Adam, and Adam was fine in that respect otherwise you wouldn't be here
then sin came in and creation groans since that awful time in history

You can't seriously believe in the book of Genesis? Do you?

Do you really believe in Noahs Ark?

They were just stories handed down, that someone decided to bundle together as an opening chapter for the bible.
Bart of Darkness
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 03:34 PM) *
how would an ape have to give consent

The same way that it said "yes" to a proposal of marriage?
scarlets79
QUOTE (Vespasian @ Mar 20 2008, 04:19 PM) *
You can't seriously believe in the book of Genesis? Do you?

Do you really believe in Noahs Ark?

They were just stories handed down, that someone decided to bundle together as an opening chapter for the bible.


how do you know that?
Pacific State
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:01 PM) *
but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey


Atheists do. But God doesn't...

GE 17:15-16, 20:11-12, 22:17 Abraham and his half sister, Sarai, are married and receive God's blessings.
LE 20:17, DT 27:20-23 Incest is wrong.
Vespasian
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 04:34 PM) *
how do you know that?

Creationism is a one-dimensional view on religion and the world. To simply ignore proven scientific fact as it reveals more and more about the workings of the universe is illogical.

Darwinism is perhaps the most important scientific breakthrough ever and to simply denounce it because of a bunch of fables is idiotic.

Can you explain Stellar Nurseries? DNA?

I suggest a focus on real the real miracle of Christianity - the miracle of the resurrection of Jesus (this being Easter week and all)
wheresmyfoxhole
QUOTE (Vespasian @ Mar 20 2008, 02:58 PM) *
While part of me is against gay people adopting children, I would think many gay couples could bring up children better than some of those pramfaces out there. Or these two hopeless examples

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/west_yo...ire/7299527.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7297481.stm


Are the McCanns included too?
laurejon
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 04:51 PM) *
So if a man and a woman cannot have a child and they adopt one, can they have a normal family life?

My friend is a lesbian, she has a son from a previous relationship but now lives with her female partner. I can assure you that thier family life is no different to the one I have with my wife and son.



Really, how strange.

Are you happy in your marriage ?
laurejon
QUOTE (Doom Lord @ Mar 20 2008, 05:44 PM) *
I think I know what you are trying to say: "Does a child being brought up by a Gay couple stand more chance of being gay and depriveing them of a so called "Normal" Life?"

I think this is a valid point to raise and goes back to why you are asking the wrong questions, the real question is: are Gay people Gay by design or through learnt bahviour? either way I do think there are enough cases of Gay people bringing up childen for us to do some sort of study to try an answer that question. If the answer is that doesn't matter what sexuality your parents are then I would be all for it.


I dont think Gay is learnt behaviour, its simply a mental illness that is maybe a fault in the genetic makeup of a person.

I am sure that over time, and with an understanding of genetics becoming more and more commonplace there will be a time when the sick can be treated with a certain degree of certainty. I suppose in the meantime it would be mean to deprive them of their sexual antics by law, however it would be wrong to consider it normal as over time it will be treated with hopefully 100% success rate by modern science.
Jonnyargles
So's being conservative.

http://www.latimes.com/news/science/la-sci...=la-home-center

QUOTE
Exploring the neurobiology of politics, scientists have found that liberals tolerate ambiguity and conflict better than conservatives because of how their brains work.

In a simple experiment reported todayin the journal Nature Neuroscience, scientists at New York University and UCLA show that political orientation is related to differences in how the brain processes information.

Previous psychological studies have found that conservatives tend to be more structured and persistent in their judgments whereas liberals are more open to new experiences. The latest study found those traits are not confined to political situations but also influence everyday decisions.

The results show "there are two cognitive styles -- a liberal style and a conservative style," said UCLA neurologist Dr. Marco Iacoboni, who was not connected to the latest research.

Participants were college students whose politics ranged from "very liberal" to "very conservative." They were instructed to tap a keyboard when an M appeared on a computer monitor and to refrain from tapping when they saw a W.

M appeared four times more frequently than W, conditioning participants to press a key in knee-jerk fashion whenever they saw a letter.

Each participant was wired to an electroencephalograph that recorded activity in the anterior cingulate cortex, the part of the brain that detects conflicts between a habitual tendency (pressing a key) and a more appropriate response (not pressing the key). Liberals had more brain activity and made fewer mistakes than conservatives when they saw a W, researchers said. Liberals and conservatives were equally accurate in recognizing M.

Researchers got the same results when they repeated the experiment in reverse, asking another set of participants to tap when a W appeared.

Frank J. Sulloway, a researcher at UC Berkeley's Institute of Personality and Social Research who was not connected to the study, said the results "provided an elegant demonstration that individual differences on a conservative-liberal dimension are strongly related to brain activity."

Analyzing the data, Sulloway said liberals were 4.9 times as likely as conservatives to show activity in the brain circuits that deal with conflicts, and 2.2 times as likely to score in the top half of the distribution for accuracy.

Sulloway said the results could explain why President Bush demonstrated a single-minded commitment to the Iraq war and why some people perceived Sen. John F. Kerry, the liberal Massachusetts Democrat who opposed Bush in the 2004 presidential race, as a "flip-flopper" for changing his mind about the conflict.

Based on the results, he said, liberals could be expected to more readily accept new social, scientific or religious ideas.

"There is ample data from the history of science showing that social and political liberals indeed do tend to support major revolutions in science," said Sulloway, who has written about the history of science and has studied behavioral differences between conservatives and liberals.

Lead author David Amodio, an assistant professor of psychology at New York University, cautioned that the study looked at a narrow range of human behavior and that it would be a mistake to conclude that one political orientation was better. The tendency of conservatives to block distracting information could be a good thing depending on the situation, he said.

Political orientation, he noted, occurs along a spectrum, and positions on specific issues, such as taxes, are influenced by many factors, including education and wealth. Some liberals oppose higher taxes and some conservatives favor abortion rights.

Still, he acknowledged that a meeting of the minds between conservatives and liberals looked difficult given the study results.

"Does this mean liberals and conservatives are never going to agree?" Amodio asked. "Maybe it suggests one reason why they tend not to get along."
barry
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 04:23 PM) *
so why can't a man marry an ape?


If you want to shag an ape - no problem.

But don't try and force it on the rest of us.
Wario
QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:01 PM) *
but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey

Hey, it happens, just get used to it, OK?
It seems to work alright for some. The state may not agree, of course.
And women bite less than monkeys, in general, I've found.
laurejon
Apes are no better than women.

You give them a bannana and they show not gratitude and would gladly bite the hand off that fed them. You ask them to look after your children and the moment you turn your back another ape is jumping them. Their backsides look large in whatever they wear. They would rather be swinging, than relaxing with the kids. They dribble most of the time, and if you look at them the wrong way they grimmace and then show their teeth. They are nimble when on all fours, but completely useless standing on their own two feet. They find it difficult to get on with your friends when in your company, but get on very well with your best mates when you are out at work. They will eat till they drop, then sleep for the entire day complaining they are overworked.
Minos
Scarlets - are you telling me you have never coveted another man's ass ?
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