QUOTE (scarlets79 @ Mar 20 2008, 01:01 PM)

but you seek to deny this privelidge to others, such as a brother and sister, or a man and a monkey
With regards to Brother and Sisters, Genetically speaking its a no go, Although this could change as we make advances with genetic manipulation so I am open to debate on this one, but it would be pushing the boundry for me.
As to beastiality, well animalscan't speak so they can't give consent so yes I am against it.
However your initial question is good one: "What is Family?". I often find myself thinking about this. For me "Familiy" is a unit of measure that refers to the "Main Carers" of a child.
I don't think you could actually pin down on "Family Values" because these are different for every family and always have been, thats what makes people individual. Obviously Religion sets a number of "Family Values" that are constant and can be used a measure of how conformist each family is to these values.
Please note that I am not saying that these values are bad. In fact I feel that with the decline of religion in the UK that a lot of decent values\rules are lost and there is not a mechanism to replace them. We certainly cannot look to our leaders for moral guidence
Personally I think Atheism should become a proper form of religion i.e it should be organised. It should have a set of rules about how to live a good, honest life. Also because it wasn't the word of God then it would be OK to discuss things and change the world around us changed.