QUOTE(Bluelady @ Dec 15 2004, 10:26 PM)
So you think our parents' generation had it good do you. Martello? As your counterpart - I'm 51 - I can't believe you can think this for a split second.
My father was born in 1916 in the middle of a world war, in fact he was named after a battle that was raging at the time (Verdun). He grew up as the son of a miner during a depression, he joined the air force because there was no other work going and consequently fought every minute of another world war.
He then rejoiced in the creation of the welfare state and now that he's old enough to need it is watching it being dismantled piece by piece around his ears.
Try telling him he's part of a lucky generation. So he bought a house for about tuppence ha'penny on a ridiculously cheap mortgage because he worked for a bank after leaving the air force and he's got two pensions apart from his state one. And he took early retirement - at 59, I think.
Bloody good on him - I think that generation deserve everything they've got if they're relatively affluent, they lived through some of the worst times imaginable. Every one of us born after the war has had it softer than anyone deserves - and then we have the gall to moan about our lot. We should be hanging our heads in shame.
I think you, to some extent, misunderstood me. I know my parents generation had it hard - in fact my father lived in a council house all his life - worked bloody hard all his life and we were definitely in the 'hard-up' category when I was a kid. Like yours, my father spent every minute of the second world war in a soldier's uniform. I still think he (and certainly his property owning peers) were, relatively speaking, 'luckier' than many of my peers. And, when I thinkof the next generation - I despair. They cannot afford to get married and have children - they both have to work long hours - kids have to be in childcare - they have to take on massive debts just to put a roof over their heads - they have no job security - they live in a globalized world where now, as much as any time in history, unskilled workers are treated like cattle. We used to have unions to try to get decent working conditions and job security - now what have we got - a flexible labour market. i.e. crappy jobs for crappy money for a huge percentage of the population.
Have you seen our city centres at 11 o'clock on a Friday night - its like a war zone. My eldest son who is almost 16 is regularly subjected to violent attacks - verbal and physical, day and night, in and around the affluent market town we live near.
I have had to have serious rows with him to get him to go to bed on several occasions when he has been in conversation with friends on MSN - who are threatening to commit suicide! At the tender of age of 15 he is an agony uncle! I believe that there is something weird and intensely depressing about the way our society has evolved. I can only see drink and drug abuse getting worse. You said our parents generation 'lived through some of the worst times imaginable'. Well, I think that is true for every generation. Every generation has some people in it living through the worst times imaginable - whether this is war or poverty or even, as it the case now, some sort of debilitating malaise to do with the pointlessness of working ever increasing hours in crappy jobs, driving huge distances to work in the insane traffic we have now etc. etc. just for what - a house?
I think the point I really want to make is that, over the last 20 or so years - since Thatcher decided we had to become more competitive - our society has become more selfish, more fragmented and there has been a huge movement of wealth from young people to old people - at least in the property owning section of society. You realise I am sure that when a young person miraculously affords to buy a flat with a 150k mortgage - and all the other people in a chain take on an extra 50k on their mortgages to move up - it is the person at the top of the chain who benefits - often an older person getting out of the market to take advantage of the equity in the house. All that extra mortgage debt moves up the chain to the person at the top's bank account.
The average age of a FTB is 34. As zzg113 pointed out above, we are in the process of having a generation of women sterilized by property prices. The days are gone where you could just 'put your name down at the council' and wait a couple of years for a low rent house to become available for the rest of your life.
I look at my Dad and picture him as a 15 year old lad in a rough part of London working as a 'boy' in a furniture shop and my Mum - who came to this country from Ireland when she was 16 and went into service - and picture them standing at the beginning of their adult lives and I contrast it with my son - 15 years old, enjoying whatever benefits a private education can bring and living in an affluent area. And I remember my Dad saying how no matter how rough the area was, it was always safe to walk the streets at night.
If someone said to me - when would you rather be born 1918 or 1988? - I think, on balance, I would go for 1918. I think our society today is - what's a good word - squalid. My Dad, on the other hand, would have preferred 1868 - he always wanted to be a cowboy. I realise I am rambling now. However, going back to my generation - I know a lot of people who are deeply depressed. I know many people, myself included, who are biding their time to move to another country. I know many people who have seen their future fall apart in the last few years as endowment and pension scandals mean they can see themselves having to work until they drop. And lots of people my age have no job security - and they know, if they lose their jobs because someone half their age will do their job for half the money they are on - they will never get another job at the same salary again. Its time to head off to be one of the grey brigade who work at B&Q for minimum wages. My Dad's generation used to get a job and stick with it for life. I remember when I was in my 20s - you'd meet some old boy who'd been in the same job for 35 years and think - 'you poor old bugger - what a bloody boring life you have had' - but I know lots of people now who would be very happy to have some job security. In the 60s we broke all the rules and changed society's social conventions. In the 80s society's employment conventions were overturned. I feel the result of these things is an aimless, shiftless, morally bankrupt society. A civilization in fact that like all others before it has moved into its period of terminal decline.
I think the only people who are in a good position today are the ever increasing army of public sector workers. They still have pensions and (pretty good) job security. They even threaten strikes when Culpability threatens (and it will only ever be a threat) a cull. Are you one of them?